Not Always Worth The Risk

Growing up around girls,  I have a pretty good backstage veiw that taught me what they want q guy to say, how to act, what  to do when they cry (Hah!! As if!) But there are some things that are specific to individuals, that you couldnt observe anyway. Several of these often bother me, but a while back, one became especcialy pressing. Would a girl who has never been kissed be happy if a guy kissed her? That seems like an obvious answer, but its not so easy. Girls usually like it when guys take the lead ( I have come to belive that this is solely so if anything goes wrong, we can be held entirely at fault) What if she did, but wasn't ready for that? Or what if she didnt like the guy, he only thought she did? Would she have rathered not be kissed, so her first kiss would be one she wanted? Or would she take it as a compliment, that while she didnt personally like the guy, that he took intrest in her. And, growing up with three sisters, I have a pretty good idea what a girl would answer. "It depends on the guy". You know, that really doesn't help at all. How is a guy to know if he is one of the guys that the girl wouldnt mind?? This decision is not one I have to make right away, but I want to have an answer ready, because if this situation ever presents itself, I need to make the the decision in a second. Life would be so much more fun with an undo button. Then I could find out, and if it doesnt go like I want, just hit ctrl-Z and live consequence free. But as it is, life leaves us stuck with the consequences. But some things are worth the risk. I would deem this as one of those, but I dont like being wrong, and if I am wrong, I risk my friendship with the girl as well. Its not fair for a girl to get frustrated that guys dont make a move toward her when she is putting so much pressure on them. Don't they understand that maybe they didnt say anything because they value what they have with you too much? And girls laugh because guys seem nervous!