Honesty

The other day, I had thought up brilliant wording for this post, great points, and a perfect way to say everything. Then i got out of the shower. All i remember now is the topic. But i still want to say it, so here goes.

It seems that many times my friends are just too nice. Now, i suppose its odd to complain that someone is too nice, but it can get to be pretty annoying. I can ask there opinion on something, and they only tell me what they think i want to hear. But all i want to hear is the truth. I dont want false encouragement and lies, I want the truth. let me do the self deluding  but I cant give myself a second honest opinion. So, following the golden rule, I use this same philosophy on my friends. But it seams there not very appreciative of such things, and usually get mad or insulted. So if you have something to say to me, please dont beat around the bush. I have a knack for guessing motives correctly anyway. I likely already know. or have an idea. It just annoys me that people belive me so fragile that they cant say what they mean. or believe that i would reject them if they said something about themselves.